Are you trying to get back with your ex? And are you wondering how to behave during your first date? Don’t worry. You are not the only one. Questions about how to behave when you start dating your ex once again have been asked by many people. And they have asked these questions over and over again. There have been reasonable answers too, subject to small deviations here and there.


The first and foremost point that you would want to keep in mind is that if you are going to get back your ex, then this is the right time for you to look and feel your best. The separation has happened not because of the best of your qualities. It has happened because some ugly side or the other of yours have come to their attention, or the other way round. Either way, it is time to clean the slate and get your evaluation right in their books.

So yes, your looks and your attitude, both matter. You would want to be your best self because that’s the “you” that had made them feel attracted towards yourself in the first place. They did not love you because of nothing in the first place. They loved you because you had something that they found lovable. So, when it comes to the judgment day – the day that will play a massive role in getting your ex back and making you what you become in the rest of your life – it is important that you are at your supreme.

How to be at your best? Is it the best of your dress code? Is it the best of your intellect? Is it the best of your brilliance? Is it a glowing skin like one gets after a sauna session? Something needs to be wonderful in this meeting. And, you are the one who will have to produce this wonderful time.

Now, don’t start worrying. It is not really as difficult as it sounds. You don’t have to walk on your hands or learn how to fly. All that you need to do is be yourself. Relax and make them feel as relaxed as you feel. By the time the date starts settling in, you are already at your best and you have already started getting them to their very best of levels.

One critical question is whether you would want to initiate and maintain an eye contact. At one level, it would be unwise not to look straight. The meeting is not meant to hide stuff. It is meant to touch the common base between the two of you again that both of you mutually love. So, initiating an eye contact would help getting started.

Don’t stare or glare though. Act normal; behave normally. Staring, glaring or frowning may not go well. But, if you can establish eye contact and maintain the contact at a frequency that normal people talking between each other would do given the circumstances, nothing could beat that.